04.01.T02-SA — Self-Assessment: Am I Living as a Value-Adding Woman?

Assessing My Effectiveness as an Ezer

This introduction teaches that God created women to be ezers — women who save, support, strengthen, protect and add value to people, families, organisations and communities. It further teaches that God Himself is the ultimate example of value addition, having transformed a formless and empty world into a thriving environment full of purpose and life.

Use this assessment to evaluate the extent to which you are currently fulfilling your God-given calling to add value.

Scoring Guide

Part A: Understanding My Calling

The introduction teaches that women were created to fulfill God's purposes alongside others.

1. I see my life as having a God-given purpose.

Score: _____

2. I intentionally look for opportunities to make a positive difference.

Score: _____

3. I believe God created me to contribute meaningfully to other people's lives.

Score: _____

4. I regularly reflect on the value I bring to people and situations.

Score: _____

5. I view value addition as part of my calling rather than an occasional activity.

Score: _____

Part B: Reflecting God's Example of Value Addition

The introduction presents God as the first and greatest value adder.

6. I leave people, places or situations better than I found them.

Score: _____

7. I look for ways to improve what has been entrusted to me.

Score: _____

8. I solve problems rather than merely identifying them.

Score: _____

9. I contribute positively to the environments where I live, work and serve.

Score: _____

10. I intentionally create order, growth or improvement around me.

Score: _____

Part C: Living as an Ezer

The introduction explains that an ezer saves, rescues, supports, protects and strengthens.

11. I willingly support people who genuinely need help.

Score: _____

12. I encourage people during difficult seasons.

Score: _____

13. I help strengthen rather than weaken those around me.

Score: _____

14. I am dependable when people need support.

Score: _____

15. I look beyond my own needs and notice the needs of others.

Score: _____

Part D: Being a Source of Strength

The chapter teaches that women were created to bring unique value into partnerships and relationships.

16. People can rely on me during challenging situations.

Score: _____

17. I contribute solutions when problems arise.

Score: _____

18. I remain supportive when circumstances become difficult.

Score: _____

19. I help build confidence in other people.

Score: _____

20. My presence generally strengthens the people around me.

Score: _____

Part E: Adding Value Through Relationships

The introduction explains that value addition should be reflected in our various life roles.

21. I intentionally add value to my family relationships.

Score: _____

22. I intentionally add value to friendships and social relationships.

Score: _____

23. I contribute positively within my church or faith community.

Score: _____

24. I contribute positively within my workplace or business environment.

Score: _____

25. People generally benefit from having me in their lives.

Score: _____

Part F: Understanding and Meeting Needs

Adam's situation illustrates the importance of recognising genuine needs and responding appropriately.

26. I take time to understand what people actually need.

Score: _____

27. I avoid imposing solutions without understanding the situation first.

Score: _____

28. I adapt my support according to individual needs.

Score: _____

29. I am sensitive to unmet needs around me.

Score: _____

30. I seek to provide meaningful rather than superficial help.

Score: _____

Part G: Fruitfulness and Productivity

The introduction highlights God's mandate to be fruitful and productive.

31. I use my gifts, talents and abilities productively.

Score: _____

32. I seek continuous growth and improvement.

Score: _____

33. I pursue excellence in my responsibilities.

Score: _____

34. I take initiative rather than waiting for others to act.

Score: _____

35. My life produces positive outcomes for others.

Score: _____

Part H: Being a Complementary Partner

The introduction presents woman as a suitable and complementary counterpart.

36. I work well with other people.

Score: _____

37. I contribute strengths that complement those of others.

Score: _____

38. I avoid unnecessary competition in relationships.

Score: _____

39. I appreciate the contributions of other people.

Score: _____

40. I seek collaboration rather than domination.

Score: _____

Part I: Living as a Woman of Worth

The introduction concludes by highlighting the value of a virtuous woman.

41. I am developing godly character.

Score: _____

42. I seek wisdom when making decisions.

Score: _____

43. I demonstrate integrity in my conduct.

Score: _____

44. I use my abilities responsibly and effectively.

Score: _____

45. I strive to become a woman whose life benefits others.

Score: _____

Part J: Spiritual Foundations

The introduction roots value addition in God's design and purpose.

46. I seek God's guidance regarding my purpose.

Score: _____

47. I depend on God when serving others.

Score: _____

48. I pray about the roles and responsibilities entrusted to me.

Score: _____

49. I desire to reflect God's nature through my actions.

Score: _____

50. My relationship with God influences how I treat people.

Score: _____

Part K: My Current Life Roles

For each role that applies to you, rate how intentionally you add value.

51. As a daughter, I intentionally add value.

Score: _____

52. As a wife or future wife, I intentionally add value.

Score: _____

53. As a mother or future mother, I intentionally add value.

Score: _____

54. As a church member, I intentionally add value.

Score: _____

55. As an employee, professional or businesswoman, I intentionally add value.

Score: _____

Scoring Summary

Part A Total: _____ / 25

Part B Total: _____ / 25

Part C Total: _____ / 25

Part D Total: _____ / 25

Part E Total: _____ / 25

Part F Total: _____ / 25

Part G Total: _____ / 25

Part H Total: _____ / 25

Part I Total: _____ / 25

Part J Total: _____ / 25

Part K Total: _____ / 25

Grand Total

Total Score: _____ / 275

Reflection on My Results

56. Which area received your highest score?

57. Which area received your lowest score?

58. Which aspect of the biblical concept of ezer best describes you today?

☐ Supporting

☐ Strengthening

☐ Protecting

☐ Encouraging

☐ Problem-solving

☐ Serving

☐ Other: ____________

59. Which aspect of ezer most needs development in your life?

60. Looking at Genesis 1 and 2, where do you believe you are currently fulfilling God's design most effectively?

61. In which role are you currently adding the greatest value?

62. In which role are you currently adding the least value?

63. If the people closest to you completed this assessment about you, what area would they most likely say needs improvement?

64. What one change would most increase the value you add to people during the next twelve months?